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In a traditional Chinese kung fu school of old, the teacher's role was to cultivate him or her self to the highest level and then guide the students to this same level. The student's role was to support and obey the teacher, but of equal importance was to provide and maintain needed facilities or resources to make such training possible. Lake Norman Tai Chi Center adheres to this tradition of what a kung fu school should be in as much as possible. Tuition is kept reasonable to make training available to as many students as possible, but without the support and effort of the students, the teacher cannot forge ahead and the success of the students will in turn fall short. Therefore the following guidelines are important.
1. All students should take the responsibility for running and maintaining the school. Volunteer to help in which ever ways you can, and participate with a positive spirit of cooperation.
2. More experienced students should help new students feel welcomed and wanted in our kwoon. Encouragement and setting a good example will help all students reach their full potential. Newer students should demonstrate respect toward more senior students at all times.
3. All students should actively participate in promoting the Shaolin arts in general, and our school in particular. There are always fliers to be posted in your community, or articles to be written, or many other ways you can help your school grow and flourish. Word of mouth is one of the best ways - tell other people of good character about your training and encourage them to join. The strength of your school truly is the foundation from which you'll draw strength in your own training.
1. Never miss your classes. In earlier days, you would live with your teacher who would oversee every phase of your development. Today you only see your teacher for a short time each week, so it is important that you are consistent and on time to class if you are to make progress in the arts.
2. In the event you must miss several classes, notify your school's staff ahead of time if possible or let them know afterward why you missed class. In the case of private lessons or the disciples class, you must always notify your teacher ahead of time if you must miss class.
3. Do not miss class because of injuries or minor illness. You can make great progress sitting in a wheelchair and meditating if need be, so do not neglect the spiritual strength that can be derived from being in the company of your teacher and your hard-working kung fu brothers and sisters.
4. Always attend classes prepared. This means wearing your proper uniform (clean and in good repair), keeping nails cut short for safety, removing all watches and jewelry, wearing proper kung fu shoes or suitable sneakers, and maintaining good personal hygiene.
5. Do not miss special events such as lectures, demonstrations, retreats or other school events. If your teacher feels it is important enough for your school to participate, you should take advantage of the event and the learning experiences it will offer you.
1. Never stop your training because you are short of money. Instead, work out a system of payment or service with your teacher. It is too easy to find reasons and "excuses" not to forge ahead and develop yourself - never let money become this excuse.
2. Try, whenever possible, to buy or order any kung fu clothing or supplies through your school. With student discounts you will usually spend less than you would through retail stores or mail order, and you are helping to support your kwoon.
3. Special Occasions: It is tradition to remember your teacher and Grandmaster on birthdays and Chinese New Year. The common practice is a red envelope donation collected amongst students, the contents of which usually get put right back into the school anyway. It is said in China, "If a student cares for the teacher, how then can a teacher not care for the student?"
1. Train Regularly. Determine now that success in your training is important to you, and set your schedule accordingly. Once set, do not deviate from your training schedule. And remember, nothing of value is mastered over night.
2. Follow through on any commitment you make, whether in training or in volunteering to help with kwoon activities. The kwoon is dependent of the efforts of students if it is to grow and flourish. Everything you offer to do is appreciated and does not go unnoticed. However, make sure that you DO what you say you will do. In Shaolin it is often said that the empty bucket makes the most noise. Some students wish to talk big about what they can do and what they will do, but there is little substance behind their words. Remember in life it is okay to say no, but not okay to say yes if you mean no.
3. If you make an error in judgment regarding Wu-de, recognize the error and correct it immediately. Every master before you made mistakes, but part of their mastery was showing the courage and humility to admit and correct their mistakes.
4. Carry your training into your daily life. Indeed, make your daily life your training ground. Be humble, kind, harmonious and non-confrontational in all of your dealings, and follow the Shaolin creed at all times.
5. Know that your toughest opponent is yourself! Do not become complacent, lazy or apathetic in your training. Do not sacrifice the development of your mind, body and spirit - ever!